Feb 12, 2023

 Feb 12, 2023

So for today all I can say is WOW! 

     It is kinda amazing how each day there is something else happening. Either my head or right out there in the open. Well today was right in the open. 

     My ex, Thelma, and I recently broke up. We had a virtual relationship. (Yes the husband approved, that is for another day). But for today, I was talking to her and I casually mentioned that I noticed she wasn't coming to the land anymore. (BTW, I am not dumb. There are ALWAYS 2 sides to the story: my version. Their version. The middle) (I can only give my side as I have the logs to back me up. ANYWAYS!) They told me that is bcs because they had gotten their own land. Ok, that is completely fine. It's their right. Not like she had paid me a single dime lol and she had not been on the land in 3 weeks. So I asked them to come to get their prim babies bcs I was going to pick up the virtual house I had laid out as I did not need something that huge anymore if it is just me with 1 prim baby and my toddler avie (which btw is myself anyways). She was never there to care for hers anyways. 

     She got upset with me,  saying "I can't picture them anywhere else"....  Now, this is funny bcs they had only been out on the land at most 2 months of the 1-3 years she had had them. Like, come on now. And she had not taken care of them in over 3-4 weeks. I couldn't care for them. So it made 0 sense to keep them on my land. Then out of the blue, she says "I got my own land so I could move around anything I want, and have anyone over whenever I want. In fact we had a karaoke night and it was fun".
     This is where it got tricky, and the "she said/ she said" comes in. I took that as I never let her have anyone over. Which is NOT the truth. She had manager rights on the land. She could bring anyone there whenever she wanted and whoever she wanted. I did not care. As for moving things around, again, I never stopped her. So when I got upset and "CAPITALIZED" some words bcs I was mad. She said I was being passive-aggressive. I tried to explain how I read it. She tells me I read it wrong. Then it goes silent for a bit. 

     I go down to check on my baby and to delete the house and realize that her 2 babies are gone, but ALL the furniture is still there. So now I am even more confused bcs she never was on the land. So I wrote asking if she was and why she did not take the furniture. Suddenly I get a book from her. And this is the kicker of all kickers. 

     She proceeds to tell me in her long paragraph that she can do what she wants when she wants how she wants. That we are only friends. That I am making her out to be an aggressor when she is not. That I am twisting everything. That I point the finger at her ALL the time. That I am controlling her. That the more she pulls away from me, the more I try and control her. That I am aggressive. That she just wanted independence. And she wants the old "Rose" back oh and that she rezzed the babies out at her place, so she didn't need to come to mine. 

     I ABOUT DIIIIIIIEEEEEDDD. Like really. I read the first 1/4 of that and saw the last 2 people who screwed me over so bad when they told me that, too when I finally stood up to them and stopped being their punching bag, stopped being their financial bank, stopped being their rug to walk on. She wanted the prim babies there to control me, to make me SEE THEM every day to be reminded OF HER! She was mad bcs I ENDED THE PARTNERSHIP. She broke up, but I went on the pages and dissolved the partnership. She even said she was leaving it like that for a reason. Why bcs she didn't want me to get with anyone else. 

     NOONE is getting "The Old Rose" Back because I will not be controlled any longer. They can all kiss my butt!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Btw you will hear a lot more about her in the future. Night for now <3