March 7, 2023

 March 7, 2023

     Talk about a change of events. The other day I mentioned how I was dumb enough to write an ex-kid, well here is what I sent 

[2023/03/03 18:00:45] Avies Name: Hello hun, I have one question. I noticed you never kept your promise to put the intials in your name, but you now have (ex-gf last name). Does that mean you are part of (ex-gf) family now :)

[2023/03/03 18:02:56] Avies Name:  Or does this mean you are not talking to me? If you dont want to answer. I understand.

[2023/03/03 18:11:44] Avies Name:  Well you might be busy or you might be getting your story straight. I dont know. But I will tell you since Nov I have been told you talked down on me, told (ex-gf) we were bad for her, claimed that (one of the kids) said it when it was actually (ex-kid) probably. I am sure you have been told all kinds of lies about me. But I have been told all kinds of things about you. That is why I didnt stop (ex-gf) from attacking oyu  that day...... I would have thought adter 5 years you would have known me better. But I guess not. So go ahead listen to all the lies about me that you want. And I wish you and your lady a wonderful life. But I cant handle anymore back stabbing. I love you, Guess I again fucked up. Take care

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   YES, that was a STUPID MOVE. I was hurt bcs the ex said they wanted nothing to do with the ex-kid and even told the ex-kid they were freeloading off of me. Well, doing that has now got me on SL secrets. Boy, did the Ex-Gf try and cream me. Tons of lies in it. They mentioned how we bring people into our poly relationship to use them and leave them heartbroken. 

     Now let's go back a bit shall we. The first girl that was brought in we broke up with bcs she was lying and cheating with my virtual sons. The next one (would be the ex-gf three times over). SHE brings in the next girl, and then flips out and breaks up and runs AFTER we paid for her to come to visit bcs she said she wanted to. That one, by the way, is still in the family, but we mutually split after 5 years. The next (and last one) was again brought in by the ex-gf the second time we got with her. That one we were with until hubby had heart surgery. After she brings her in AGAIN, she flips out and leaves... BTW this is after she sent me a promise ring to always work things out. I did NOT ask for that ring. We then don't speak for a year, but (and I don't remember how) we started talking, but stupidly we did. And over the next year, I truly believed she had gotten things worked out within herself and convinced my hubby to let her back in the fam (NOT AS A GF at this point), and he agrees bcs it looks like things are better. Well, this is what happens...

     We both stupidly admitted we still loved each other. But out of the blue, she asked me and the hubby if we would be her partners again. Stupidly said yes. Then she begged for the "rules" that are laid out in a poly relationship, and within 3 weeks BOOM she has a new person, this time RL. BTW, later on she told me we shouldn't have left it "open". She introduces us to him, and he seems cool. They go out on a date. And when she gets back, she tells us he has already asked her to be his GF. She swore she said no. But a month and a half later on FB, it shows they became a couple on the date she told me. So I got upset and told her she lied to us that whole time. BTW we were planning a trip down there, and she wanted to go to Fl with us. So all of this was mutual. 

     She asked me to marry her. And I said yes. Was I weary of the situation, not at first till I started seeing signs of the lies. And that is where everything went downhill. Did I tell her one night that my business was going to be first? Yes, but that is bcs my RL husband and RL kid even accept that since I have 0 steady income, and rely on whatever I can sell to make ends meet. I am paying for a sim. She broke up with me bcs of that, STATING she expected more of my time. She also said that she wanted ALL of my time and it wasn't fair that I was sharing it with hubby and kid, who gets a little bit of it. But she needed 2-3 days with her RL BF. But that is bcs they understand me. Yes on my bday she gave me linden... DIDN'T know there were strings attached to that. I did un-partner her the next day, but we had been broken up for a week at that point, and that is when I saw the date she ACTUALLY started dating the guy. So as far as I was concerned, she had lied to me. 

     Then bcs I unpartnered her she got pissed telling me she left it there for a reason. (I have the proof of that). As far as I can see it you left it there as a control. But then, when I asked her to remove her prim babies from my land (bcs she had not been on my land in 3 weeks), she tells me "but I cant see them being anywhere else. HUH??? YOU DON'T EVEN COME TO THE LAND. Then she tells me I am controlling. Please tell me how. But I told her well if she thinks that, than we need to take a break from each other, and that's when she went off. 

     I asked for a break, but she defriended me. Well ok, then. This is how you want it..  fast forward, I saw that on the ex kid and sent them the messages from above. And now I am on SL Secrets.  I happily put my name to the responses where everyone else is anonymous. 

     Then I get a call today from another person saying I said some nasty stuff about them... I went off the deep end on that and reminded them this isn't the first time someone gets pissed at me and goes to people I know to start crap. 

     I guess the ex is trying to drive me out of the virtual world. Good luck with that ...