March 27, 2027

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 March 27, 2023

    Amazing how desperate people are to waste time and resources of government agencies when they lose things and want to blame someone`` other than themselves. When it was their own damn fault bcs the person they are blaming is not their parent, lover, guardian, caretaker by any PAID agency, or anything for that fact. You read that right. Let me explain. 

    Towards the end of this last week, I was awoken by a visitor I would never expect. Adult Protection Services. Now, back in Oct, they were contacted by the ex-roommate, who told us that they were going to contact them and tell them lies about me and say I was abusing them. But they added I was abusing hubby as well. And at that time, a lady came out and explained she couldn't tell us who called (we already knew bcs I had it in a VM that my ex-roommate was going to call). hubby walked her around the house showing her where the cat boxes were,  the areas my stuff are (bcs supposedly it was so overcrowed you could not walk in our house). OH and hubby was so disabled he cant get out of bed, but he was the one walking her around the house. He explained to her that its based on the weather. If the weather is bad, than he does have more issues. Which, the other day the weather was bad, so she got to see him in a bit more of a bad shape. 

     It was the same lady that came both times. And again she couldnt tell us who called. But process of elimation there is only 3 people who hate me enough to do it. 1 my ex, who lives in another state, so really dont think it was her but who knows. 2 ex roommates bestie who lives with roommate who hates me bcs i misgendered them many times, yet i would misgender my own kid but that wasnt an excuse and yeah went off the deep end and stole my stuff and my money that was in the apartment. And last but certainly not least 3 the exroommate who DID call them last time. Im guessing 2 or 3 or someone they set up to do it. lol. You know to keep their "Nose" and "Consciece" clean. You know bcs they think I am stupid. 

     So this report was that I am stealing all of the hubbys money AND I am abusing him. Like ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!!!!!!!! Since the fiasco where I trusted all these people I dont make any decisions about money matters without him knowing now. I still pay the bills. But buying or paying for things that cost anything over $50 i talk to him first. I aint getting into that trap again. I do not trust myself after what I did to my family and trusting people I should never have trusted. Anything I make off Ebay, he knows about. I even talk to him about any offers I am sent if the prioce is lower than what I have it up for. Also one last and very very important thing. WE SHARE THE CHECKING ACCOUNT. Dont you think he would see if i was taken money away O.o
     This time though the lady talked to everyone, hubby, the kid, and myself. The kid even said if I am anything I am TOO nice O,o. They kinda got a point. Its why i stay to myself now, except a very very VERY small few in SL, and they know who they are. They are my direct family. They carry at least one of my 2 last names, and belong to 1 very important server. They have all been there for me, as I am for them. Sometimes we lose touch with each other but when its most important (like recitals) we are there. I love them to pieces. And I am proud to call them my family <3

    Till next time. 






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March 19, 2023

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March 19, 2023

     Up to this point I have kept my mouth quiet about something that has happened to my family thanks to one particular person. Why in the world I still wanted to protect this person and not state at least what they did is beyond me. When all this went down, they HAPPILY broadcasted my RL name on their Facebook to give their version of what happened. You ask how do I know this? Well, simple, they used 2 alts to send my husband and my multiple avies GYAZOs of what they wrote on Facebook. Slandering me and putting in their message that people can contact them to get my business name both RL and virtual. Then they pull the same thing on SLSecrets when my ex blasted me. Yes, I can tell who is writing what for the most part, not everyone that wrote, but some. 

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March 9, 2023

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 March 9, 2023

     So much happening. A tangled web that got weaved. It is amazing how someone takes a kernel of truth and adds a ton of lies and crap to make it all look so real. Did you forget that I have records? Show all the receipts you want. But I can show where I took what you did pay and deducted it from the massive amounts I paid. Which I have bank statements and credit card bills to prove what I paid. 

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March 8, 2023

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 March 8, 2023

     If it isn't one thing, it is another. Now my ex Thelma has decided to go to Violet, the person that is occupying a location my name is on, and start more shit. Thelma did what so many people do. Tell a little bit of truth while lying about the rest. The best way lies are made to be believable. Violet is transgender. I often would still say "she" though vs. "he." (Keep in mind my RL kid goes by "They/Them," and I still mess up and say "she"). But Thelma told him that I misgender him all the time (true, and I admitted that and apologized) but then said I was confused about their gender (false) and that they also are confused about their own gender (false). Then I get another call from Violet saying why am I telling people his business like I'm glad he paid on the place a few months ago. Told me it wasn't my business to tell. At the time of the call, I was shocked and just said I was sorry. Once I hung up, hubby reminded me that I said something because it is my business too, BCS; if he and the others DON'T pay, it goes against OUR credit too! 

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March 7, 2023

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 March 7, 2023

     Talk about a change of events. The other day I mentioned how I was dumb enough to write an ex-kid, well here is what I sent 

[2023/03/03 18:00:45] Avies Name: Hello hun, I have one question. I noticed you never kept your promise to put the intials in your name, but you now have (ex-gf last name). Does that mean you are part of (ex-gf) family now :)

[2023/03/03 18:02:56] Avies Name:  Or does this mean you are not talking to me? If you dont want to answer. I understand.

[2023/03/03 18:11:44] Avies Name:  Well you might be busy or you might be getting your story straight. I dont know. But I will tell you since Nov I have been told you talked down on me, told (ex-gf) we were bad for her, claimed that (one of the kids) said it when it was actually (ex-kid) probably. I am sure you have been told all kinds of lies about me. But I have been told all kinds of things about you. That is why I didnt stop (ex-gf) from attacking oyu  that day...... I would have thought adter 5 years you would have known me better. But I guess not. So go ahead listen to all the lies about me that you want. And I wish you and your lady a wonderful life. But I cant handle anymore back stabbing. I love you, Guess I again fucked up. Take care

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March 3, 2023

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March 3, 2023 

     When will I ever learn?!?! So a couple of things happened today. First, I contacted someone who is occupying a place that my name is on. I wanted to find out how court went. Well, it did not go well. They decided to, in short, blame me, saying I made promises that things would be better. But what about all the other people involved. Multiple people in that place were supposed to be taking care of things. It was not my responsibility to pay everyone else's bill. I have my own to do. I was kind enough to have my name on the thing, so they had a place to live. One of the people couldn't even get a place I'm tAnd look at what happens. 

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March 2, 2023

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March 2, 2023

     As I stated on the 23rd in my "that's for another day" part, there were issues with my sperm donor. My parents got divorced early on. I was like 18 months old. So I wouldn't remember anything. At least not in that time frame. Over the next few years, till I turned 10, he would show up. I'm thinking 2-3 times at best. I give him that since I only remember the one time at 10. But I think my mom said he visited a couple others. So this is the "benefit of the doubt" coming in on that. 

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