May 22, 2023 - Siggie Part 2

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     May 26, 2023

     To continue about the other day, as I stated, we had no idea what was going to happen. She seemed genuine in apologizing for what had happened at New Year's. That she was caught off guard. Of course, I couldn’t remember much, and I was dumb to NOT ask hubby about it. So I thought she was a by-standard during it all. BTW, one of the biggest things that happened was that Rachel and Don did not want a few of the kids; they just were not good fits. Well, I don’t know how it got started, but it appears you 1 of them said something about killing themselves, and Don stupidly said, “Go ahead.” That is what started the biggest fight with hubby and Don. 
      So anyways, I thought that Siggie was just a by-standard; I found out much later when we had this last blow that she wasn’t that she was a willing participant. And that she was telling them, “Can’t you tell you are not wanted and just leave in peace,” and other crap. But like I said, I couldn’t remember -.-. But bubbles brought her back, and she was remorseful. The kids were still with us. They did not take kindly to us, allowing her back even though we told them she apologized. That is when they went stupid on us and ended up leaving. 
     I swear it was already too much drama, almost like changing the guards. This was changing of the kids and grandkids. It was insane. Anyways, At some point, Siggie decided to adopt a set of adorable twins, Fay and May. And, omg did everyone’s heart melt! They have a set of big avies as well but spend a lot of time on their littles, and as far as everyone is concerned, their bigs are just as much part of the family. Butt that is how I am. If I am the mom of a little one, I am the mom of your Big too, that simple. It’s not one or the other in this family usually. They also brought in another friend of theirs who doesn’t belong to anyone, but we all consider family, and that would be Kat. 
     So things seemed really good for like a hot min before Siggie was up to no good. As I was having trouble with the hell team and my ex-daughter, Joyce, Siggie started writing me, telling me that she was tired of Bubbles complaining so much. She felt she was doing it all for attention. It got to the point she didn’t think she had seizures. In Oct/ Nov, when all HELL was breaking loose around me with the couple, she moved off the sim, telling me that the girls and she moved and got their own place, but not why. But she was quick to throw bubbles under the bus and tell me about her getting land too. And told me about how she wasn’t going to tell me and that she was trying to get her to tell me. Finally, bubbles told e she got land and explained it was because of what was happening with the hell couple, which I understood. I had not closed the sim down yet. 
     The little avatar she had made to use as a granddaughter before she became my daughter, she used as the "little" daughter. But since she never used it bcs she was always on the adult account, she told me she was giving it to her RL daughter. At the time, I had 0 reason to not believe her. So I never paid attention to what that avie was doing. Also, it got a job at an adoption location. Little did I know that when Hubby met her, she was working there also. Again didn't learn this info till later when hubby said, "Why would her RL kid work at the same place she worked at?" umm, good point. 
     I still had 2 sims. In fact, I soon closed 1 sim down, and the other sim I kept but locked down except for a small parcel for the blood bank. This helped the family feel safer anyway; this whole time, she told me how much she loved me and that she only came around for me and the girls but that they weren't even around much anymore. Making it sound like she is having issues now with the twins. I’m recording the shows they have on the weekend bus. She can’t “come to them” bcs they are on the weekends. And I don’t want her to miss the recitals they have. 
     She did a 9-month pregnancy, and they had this whole cute thing going on with “Chewbakwa.” I mean, I never suspected there were any issues she had with me or massive issues with the girls. I figured she just wished they were around more but thought, hey, she could talk to them, and I bet they would be more …. I didn’t know them well yet, so I had no idea. But I was about to learn a lot. 
     Dec came, and it was told to us she had a “stroke”. We all flipped out. Trying to figure out what we could do to help. Be there for her What we could do. “David” would tell us about how he wasn’t working and a bunch of other stuff. This went on for a couple weeks. I sent her a squishable turtle naming it Shorty bcs that is the nickname he calls her. And giving it the date of her “stroke,” we all talked bout her being a fighter. When I talked to him, he said the next day, he saw she had slept with it. So that made me feel good. Believing it all, Trusting, blinding, and caring too much. During this month, I recorded the show the girls did and sent it to her so she could see it to pick her up. DBubbles, too, pics. We all took family pics to put them into a “digital frame” for her. No one really did Christmas in SL bcs we all were missing her. 
     Jan came; she was “still” in the hospital. She and I have the same BDay. So I was sad bcs we had planned to do something big with the fam to celebrate it, but she wasn’t there, so we didn’t do anything. We were told she got covid in the hospital, so no one was allowed to see her. And that her husband had lost his job, so he was looking for something local. Finally, we were told she was getting better. She was still in ICU, supposedly, but going to therapy. ( None of the next things being told to us actually sunk in till much later.) Her husband got her a new phone bcs her other one was lost or some shit, and it has 2-verify on it, so she had to start a new discord. I fell for it, so I was like, “Just have David kick everyone out of the server since you can’t get into it.” She happily did it. I was a fool. 
     Anyways, so is going to therapy, and randomly it's “release day.” Never once did she say she was being sent to a room. In fact, she said they were sending her home since she had been in ICU for so long, and she actually had been doing alright. That did make some of us go, “HUH?” Never heard that before. It’s always been the procedure, ICU, Room, then either home or caretaker home, then a regular home. NEVER ICU than home. EVER. So moving forward, she would talk to each of us separately here and there. She was telling me that the girls were not really around anymore. And how she missed them. Now I don’t know if that was true or not bcs I wasn’t that close to them at the time. So I didn’t pay attention. I know I didn’t write her all the time bcs she said it was hard for her to get online and hard for her to type. Then randomly, she tells everyone she is leaving the virtual World. Privately she tells me she is giving the account to her daughter, but her daughter said she was going to retire it as our last name, which made me feel good. BOY, WAS THAT ALL CRAP
     The week of bubble surgery in April, she noticed that Siggy had a different name, so she looked at the profile, then, of course, told me. This was Monday. I told her about her possibly giving it to her daughter and said I guess her daughter took it. Little did I know what else I was going to find out -.- … After Bubbles went to sleep, I was looking at Discord and saw Siggy had changed her profile pic to a cat, so I went to write her, and it came back I couldn’t write her bcs we were not friends. So I looked; she was not mutual friends with ANYONE nor a mutual server. She had earned us all on Discord. So now I’m a bit on the gumming side, but I can’t tell bubbles bcs she has surgery in 3 days. Tues rolled around, and I looked at Steam and realized she deleted me off Sim, so I looked at mutual friends, and none of us had her as a friend. That was another place she “claimed” she gave her daughter. Funny, huh, everything she “gives to her daughter.” 
     So now I can. Do not sit on this. I contacted Fay, which was a good thing I contacted her, not May. I found out May’s dog passed that day -.- So, this would not have helped at all that same day. At least Fay would be able to judge when to tell her sister. So that was a lot better for me. Anyways, I wrote Fay asking her by chance if Siggie was still her friend in the world and if she knew anything and if she was and just wanted nothing to do with us, I would understand. I was just at a loss. Took a few moments for her to what herself before she could answer, but when she did, it was a time bomb bcs she didn’t see it coming. Siggy had defriended her as well. The ones she called her forever kids. I just up and dropped them like it was nothing. We were looking at her profile, and it was changed again. The names were changed. There are new last names, but they are still partnered with the guy who was made to protest against her husband. Even the guy's profile was updated. And now she was in the group that lets you adopt and be adopted by families. And not some truths start coming out. But not yet on everything still have to wait to tell Bubbles till after the surgery. 
     Bubbles surgery was Thurs. She got out on Saturday, and finally Sunday, I had the courage to tell her, which means I could tell the rest of the family now, thank goodness. And now the comparison notes start. And boy, the shit each of us DIDNT KNOW. This winch is a real piece of work. Everyone loved her. Did everything they could for her. Loved her. I was there for her, good and bad. And the crap she was saying is unreal. How do you look at one person so loving and caring to someone’s face but then be so deceitful behind their back, but then be only half mean to another person about that same person and keep them all straight and organized? She somehow did it. Keeping all her lies straight. She had people believing things, and if they didn’t know someone well enough, they didn’t ask questions. 
     I found out they left the sim way back bcs she planned on leaving the family. The girl didn’t want to leave the family and didn’t understand why she wanted to. She never gave them a good reason. She would tell girls that Buddles was living about her health issue, but we have verifiable proof that it was true. We have seen the tumor the dr took out of her. But bcs it was taking so long, she kept saying it was fake. But then again, Bubble ex-sis used to say her health issues fell too. She was telling us the girls were barely around, but we found out that she was barely there every time they were around. And when she was there, she would log out real early. We figured it out. She was probably logging out of Siggy to log in on the little account bcs she had gotten a family temporarily.      As the week went on, we all started comparing notes. Everyone, by the filing Monday, knew what was happening. I found out the twins were told they couldn’t even send anything to the hospital when she was supposedly in it, but the best part was; Her RL kid logged in, and Bubbles asked how her mom was after her stroke. The RL kid said, “virtual mom?”. That caught us off guard. So we kinda knew then that there was no stroke. How sad and pathetic can one person get. Now she has an Adoption up at the place for her little. Just so sad. But we are stronger than ever. 
     Till next time. 




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