June 25, 2023
I first met her the year before. And I felt for her. So when Marjorie was moving to the state she was at with her, I sent both of them (at the time, Violet was a girl) Stuffed Animals from Squishables. They liked the ones I had hanging. I even asked Violets Dom at the time if she was allowed it. And she approved. So I sent a cow to Marjorie and an Undercover Corgi in Elephant for Violet. Violet claimed that they had hardly any stuffies bcs they were forced to throw them all out by their dom in the past. So I was happy to see that it was allowed.
Three months later, Marjorie was back and moving in with us. Fast forward almost a year, and I am being asked by Marjorie, who is in the new apartment if I will help bring Violet down here to move in with her. I agree, thinking that if Violet moves in, that is another income, and they will have three, so they will not need me anymore. That will be a good thing bcs I no longer have it to help. Little did I know what I was in for.
So to start, we needed to get Violet on the lease. (at this point, I believe Violet is working towards being a male). So a lot of back and forth on that. I had planned to go up to get him bcs I knew I could drive back with him, and we could share the driving. It wouldn't take us long to get back either. Wouldnt needs hotels bcs one could sleep while the other drove. BUT Marjorie wasn't going to have that. She kept bugging over and over, even before the apartment agreed to allow Violet on the lease. She just HAD to go out there and "help" him pack. After bugging repeatedly, I gave in. I knew in my heart it would be a bad idea bcs she did not have a license and thus could not drive. So how was this going to work? But little did I know that was their plan to off MORE money from me.
So, got her sent off with my card. They get on the road after a day or so and head to get some sphinxes that Violet had put a down payment on. They had half the money. But needed the other half; again was dumb and believed i would be paid back. I loaned them the other half. BTW they were barely on the road when they “suddenly” needed to stop again. Like, are you kidding me? But they said it was bcs they were waiting on the other half of the money. So they got a motel for the night. The next day they went and got the cats, but almost half the day was over before they got on the road again, so again, they were only on the road a few hours before they stopped. Now keep this in mind. They are not stopping at rest stops; they want motels or hotels. So they get a motel for the night. The next day they get on the road. This goes on for 7 days!!!!! Most nights cost $150-$180. There were a few closer to $100. But I had to listen to Marjorie bitch about how bad it was and how she couldn’t sleep. And when Violet tried to “nap” in the car, it was even worse bcs she had “nothing to do but deal with 2 dogs and 3 cats, and she was uncomfortable. It was nonstop complaining. This was why I wanted to go and NOT send her. Now this bill by the time they FINALLY make it home, with meals/ gas/ cats/ etc, is over $5k USD. I get told repeatedly, “We will pay you back.”
BTW, the reason I did all this is BCS. I was supposed to be Marjorie's caregiver and going to be Violet. The paperwork was in to get paid to Marjorie by the state. She just had to finish up a couple of things. Then we talked about me becoming Violets when she came down here. Doing that would help tremendously. Yus, I was the fool to believe that any of this was true and that in essence, I was just being used.
Now apartment time. The first month in the apartment. I have paid the move fees to move them from the 1 bedroom that Majorie had with another friend. We helped her move down here to a 2 bedroom that the 3 of them will share. Boy, that was a mess. First off, they ran off the third person in literally 2-3 weeks. Now, I wasn't there, but from what I was told by Majorie herself, she said she threatened her life and had something to do with the dogs. BCS Sunshine took Violet's dogs out without asking to go potty or something. I wasn't there, so that is all hearsay, and Sunshine wasn't going to tell me much till much later. But basically, she was given till the end of the month to move out, and less than a week later, she was forced to call her mom and move back to her home state. So now it's just 2 people on disability in the apartment. Bcs Sunshine had a "real" job working outside the home working between 30-40 hours a week. And those 2 disabilities sure as hell not going to pay for their rent, bills AND the weed they smoked, so they knew they needed to find them a third. I only agreed to the 2-bedroom BCS. There was going to be a third. I can see this is going to be bad. BTW we are in mid/ late Aug., And again paid more than I should have, and I can tell I will have to for Sept.
Now comes Sept. Violet gets a check and tells me it's all mine to go towards the bills, but then I have to use half of it to pay for her car, so they don't lose it, 1/4 of it to fix the car, and almost another 1/4 on groceries and weed. ARE YOU FING KIDDING ME? The month was bad, and Oct too. Finally, in Oct, I told them both I couldn't do it anymore, I couldn't pay their bills anymore, and I'm done. Marjorie freaks out. (more on that later). But Violet turns around and starts in on me about how it's bad that they are in the middle of their best friends fighting blah blah blah. And I bought into it~~!
Well, thanks to Marjorie's behavior, we end up in court. So you have me, hubby, and them two there. Violet texted me and told me about the plea, and I said yeah, I know BCS. They asked us if we agreed to it first. She said thank you. we all go on. I let her use my Walmart Plus account to make things easy on her. (BIG MISTAKE) even let her have one of my Disney accounts, BCS. I had 3 free ones. Bcs I think she is still going to try and pay me back. That we are still on good terms. She needed help with her food stamps, and they needed info, so I was dumb and gave her the info, then deleted it. I will regret that forever. I believed it bcs my RL kid had the same issues.
In late Nov, a TV was bought at Walmart with my CC, I thought Marjorie got on her account and did it, so I changed all the info on it and canceled the order. She swears she doesn't know how it happened. I was a fool who believed her. One more time later, I noticed she bought an 8$ scraper with my card. I didn't catch that till much later, but I did catch a pair of work shoes that I canceled, and she got mad and said she thought she used her card and that was the only one. I said well, sorry, but it was my card. After that, I didn't keep my card on there anymore. My own account. All bcs I was trying to stay on good terms bcs I believed she was going to pay me back.
She, along with the move and the apartment, owed me 10-15k. Marjorie owes another 15-20k. By the way, I know this for a fact because I have done my taxes for 2022. So that didn't include what Marjorie owed for Dec 2021. Funny thing, when all this came down to a head, Violet said I saw receipts from Marjorie. I said really, bcs I have all the receipts of the stuff she spent. BTW that amount includes what I am being charged by the electric company bcs they never paid the bill, the apartment bcs they were evicted, and all that too. Total almost $29k according to US Federal Taxes. So that was just money borrowed before anyone thinks that, lol. it is stuff that has now gone against my credit bcs I won't pay for it or haven't yet.
Anyways back to the story, She took the info I gave to help with food stamps and bought stuff from Rent-a-Center. Then tells the police I gave her permission to use my info. So that is another $3 they are trying to put against me .... the Best part is Marjorie accepted the stuff at the door, telling them I was in the hospital, knowing I wasn't allowed at that apartment.
So yeah, Violet kept up a good act till they knew they couldn't, then suddenly they said I misgendered them and went off like a rocket. Accusing me of all kinds of shit. A week later, I was on a website that looked to be orchestrated by my ex, Marjorie and violet. So a great combo. Till next time~
